What it Means to Value Yourself

To value yourself is critical. It affects your perception of you and your life. Whether or not you value yourself will affect your friendships and relationships either positively or negatively. The question then becomes, what does it mean to value yourself? Below, I share what I’ve learned/learning through my journey on self -love about what […]

How Faith Helps Me Through Uncertain Times

My faith sustains me. It is what enables me to wake up and get out of bed. God gives me hope especially when things in my life are uncertain. I’m sure we’ve all had those moments when we weren’t sure where life is taking us. I had that moment after my highschool graduation. I wasn’t […]

How to Shake Off Thoughts of Not Being Good Enough

One of the things I struggled with during my adolescence and still now as a young adult are thoughts of not being good enough. What happens is that I contemplate why my life is and isn’t a certain way. I question why my career goals aren’t manifesting the way I would hope. I question the […]

3 Reasons Why You Need Time Alone

Follow my blog with Bloglovin I’ve noticed from experiences and conversations, it appears common for people to associate being with others as good and being by yourself as strange or sad. We’ve given the word “alone” a bad name. I remember at my first job, I was speaking to a co-worker about this. We laughed […]

4 Ways to Create a Happier Life

Happiness is what I look to create and embrace more of in my life. But it is not an easy goal. Life throws us into situations and events that we do not expect or want. However, I don’t think we should give up on happiness. I believe that as long as we are fortunate to […]

3 Life Changing Lessons Learned in 2017

This year marked endings and beginnings. I left New York to move back to Nigeria. I started my National Youth Service Corps (NYSC). I went back to writing more with different ideas in mind. 2017  brought me to my knees in prayer. It brought me closer, nearer to my God. I want to share what […]

12 Compelling Quotes To Have Peace of Mind

I’ve read ‘The Untethered Soul” by Michael A. Singer several times. I found out about the book through a friend. I was on a service learning trip in the university. My friend was reading the book and I was curious about the title: The Untethered Soul, the journey beyond yourself.” I asked my friend if […]

Why You Need to Set Your Emotions Free

The first impression, I can appear to be a very serious person which I am but I am mostly an expressive person. I like to express myself and my emotions. I cry when I need to and there’s something great that happens after I cry. I feel a release of whatever I felt caged in. […]

3 Simple Tips To See & Accept People as They Are

It was Maya Angelou that said, “if people show you who they are, believe them.” It is as of recent that I have truly begun to understand how profound and significant that statement applies to my life. “If people show you who they are, believe them,” Maya Angelou In the past and sometimes presently, it’s […]