The day I graduated from university was such a significant stage and transition in my life. It wasn’t only because of getting the degree but rather, my perception of myself and the world changed. When I was in school, I thrived. I participated in numerous organizations and held officer roles. I was featured in my […]
Growing up, I was insecure. How I looked played a part in my insecurities. When I was in elementary and junior high school, I was often the tallest girl in my class. I hated that. I remember a student made a comment that I was so tall. I would then slouch to appear shorter than […]
Books are what brings me peace, happiness, and comfort. I love words. I always have and always will. In honor of National Author’s Day, I’m celebrating some of the authors whose books, whose words have such a profound impact on my life. Elizabeth Gilbert It’s been […]
In many different settings Where I roam different houses I think back to several different lives Small houses with few rooms A neighborhood where my skin blends in Though the snow and hail leaves me dreary, There is comfort among the writers, artists and activists Inspired and empowered, I move freely But I later […]
Authenticity is my favorite word. It’s what I live for. Being real is happiness. Being real is peace of mind. Being real is a relief. It matters to live your life in a way that truly reflects all of who you are. However, the process of being real has been shaky for me. It’s been […]
From my childhood to teenage years, I’ve felt a deep sense of emptiness and loneliness in my life. Now, it doesn’t mean I’m always alone. It doesn’t mean that I haven’t found what matters to me. It doesn’t mean that I don’t love or know myself. It’s just what I’ve felt. There’s been that certain […]
A short narrative of my flight and drive from New York to arrive in Nigeria.
Female friendships and sisterhood is a significant bond. Our female friends and sisters add color and life to our experiences. As a feminist, I believe that women are a strong and unique gender who can do powerful things together. However, I admit from experiences and my personal failures that we women and girls are not […]
Love is that universal thing we desire. I’m sure we all aspire to have genuine love in our lives, be it in our family, friendships and relationship. I’m a hopeless romantic so love is something that is always on my mind. However, I’ve made some mistakes in that department. In dating, I’ve fallen for the […]
We all have moments of uncertainty in our lives. I have some suggestions on how to cope with the uncertainties we all face in life.